In a heavy-based saucepan or high-sided skillet, heat the olive oil over medium heat until shimmering.
Add the smoked bacon lardons and cook for 8-10 minutes until the fat renders out and the lardons turn golden.
Add the diced onion and minced garlic with about a teaspoon of salt. Cook until softened and fragrant, about 5 minutes.
Stir in the tomato paste and cook for about 2 minutes.
Pour in the passata or chopped tomatoes and bring to a simmer. Adjust seasoning as needed. If the sauce is too thick, add reserved pasta water a spoonful at a time until desired consistency is reached.
Combine pasta and sauce: Toss the cooked spaghetti into the sauce to coat evenly.
Serve: Divide the pasta among bowls and top with grated Grana Padano and chopped parsley. Optionally, add freshly ground black pepper.